４６ How to Grow up with Pleasure【Intelligence】Dialogue
with the Universe
【Point－１】Never cares to worthless things．
（１）Control Your Own Destiny
・If you have not lived your life, Who will
become yourself？
・Control Your Own Destiny or Someone Else Will．－Jack Welch（1935- ）
・Your time is limited, so don’t waste it
living someone else’s life.
Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the
results of other people’s thinking.
Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your
own inner voice.
And most important, have the courage to follow your
heart and intuition. －Steve Jobs（1955-2011）
☆It is your heart to determine your
happiness.
☆Which is true？ Lazy or impossible？
☆As long as the tomato is a tomato, it is the
real thing. It is fake when you try to show the tomato to melon.
☆Money is not all of life, but no money is
inconvenient. Convenient is better.
（２）Find out what is really
important for you！ Carry out the way to which your only once
life be applied.
・If today were the last day of my life, would
I want to do what I am about to do today? －Steve Jobs（1955-2011）
・Even if I knew that tomorrow the world would go to pieces, I would
still plant my apple tree. －Martin Luther（1483-1546）
・Word of Tadanori Yokoo：
"Be
who you are"・・・"Explore yourself more and more to
become your own ultimately, and you express it, its expression becomes the word
of God.
(Randy Taguchi,
" Island of Light Rain, Yakushima"
p.195)
☆Go the extra mile on the only way that makes you getting
a life！
☆It's a real tear, or cop-out？
☆Locate the goal, and go just straight！
（３）Don't be trapped by compete.
Don’t have an
inferiority complex.
Don't be
scrupulous.
Merely appreciate
that you are alive.
And concentrate
your power on taking out 100%！
☆Your mind will become easy if
you appreciate.
【Point－２】 Reliance upon others is useless. Reliance upon others withers your
mind and you become easy to be deceived.
・When it is in dependency, the
leading role of his life is not himself. Shigeki Suwa
http://homepage1.nifty.com/shigeki-suwa/loneliness/
・"If it is made for individual to be
buried into a group and these monotonous days are repeated free thinking
becomes impossible, it becomes easy to start a hint, and mental regression
comes." 村井翔
Source：「心理学・入門」宝島社文庫 December, 1999(p.198)
・Since imprinting [which makes it regard it as
an important thing that it is not important for you] is performed through
education and a home life, it is necessary to continue the correction and
escape from there tenaciously.
Freedom makes
people solitude.
But don't be
afraid.
You cannot grow
up, if you are not solitude.
It says, if you
do not forget love.
Solitude and love
grow up you.
The friendship
between the wise men is light like water. －Chuang-tzu （B.C.552-B.C.472）
☆Criticize on the basis of
alternative proposal.
【Point－３】For grow up with pleasure, love the people, believe the people,
accept the people, act for the people.
・If not, you are reduced, and would result in
disaster to yourself and mankind.
Go fishing for
the happiness of the day. Make a fortune for the happiness of one year. Help
the people for the happiness of life. －The extract from a
Chinese proverb
【Reference】
・Benevolence：To love million people in compassion, and to hold Courtesy by
suppressing selfish desires.
... Chuang-tzu
(BC552-BC472) was preached Benevolence the highest morality.
... Which was something
that leads to identification system to the axis the patriarchy, but in modern
times, it may be considered as manners.
・Wisdom：Intelligence and culture.
...That was proposed based
on the five elements theory for the four virtues that Mencius (BC372? -BC289)
proposed.
☆Humans are mass of greed.
☆Scramble leads to shortage. Share will lead to
allowance. Scramble leads to hate. Share
will lead to peace.
☆Have a soft heart！
○ Liberté, Égalité, Fraternité « リベルテ、エガリテ、フラテルニテ »
：Originating from the French Revolution. (1790
～)
※Fraternity：In France, charity or
benevolence is class discriminatory.
【Point－４】Do not be too greedy.
・Human becomes smaller if he is too greed.
And, he becomes easy to be deceived in person.
☆Even if I think that I understand myself, actually it
is hard to understand.
☆Your mind will become easy if you appreciate.・・・Everyone is a child of the miracle.
【Point－５】Be positiv！Think always about happy things.
・To do so, please praise yourself and others
daily.・・・Because the positive and negative contagious.
・Never blame yourself！
・To blame yourself is like making your enemy.
As a result, everything becomes impossible increasingly.
☆Be positive, do it positive, give the positive！ by Studio Gooda！
Don't blame yourself.
But even you are small.
If you won't stop to
blame, you'll be flour.
○Easy Mindfulness
15 minutes. Close
your eyes to focus on breathing. (Rather than do not think, only focus on
what is happening now in front of you.) ・・・Good to sleep.
☆The brain works well when optimistic.
☆It's no problem if you stumbled in your life.
☆Don't mind troubles. You just alive！
☆Basic of judo is passive. Judo's passive is the practice of
tumbling, losing and exposing the shame in front of people.
☆Don't sweat it. Not to be idle. Take care of business.
☆Take care of business. Specific answer comes out if go for broke.
☆How come you spent so long thinking time？Life would end！
☆You are limbo when you are confused. Snap out of it！Really settle down if you put feet on the ground.
☆You must have insight and
judgment not only intelligence and culture.
