６２ Independence／Unleash Your Brain Power３【Life】Dialogue with the Universe
６２－１ Independence
○“It is experience precious to a young person to notice "a
difference between oneself and the others." It becomes the cause to go to independence. However, regrettably many people will go to
dependence with reverse independence. By
uniting with familiar someone, they try to negate loneliness.
The
object of their dependence is a sweetheart, the best friend, or a family. Those dependence is only the means for curing
one's loneliness. Therefore, the self-centered action which disregards a
partner's character and goes to monopolize thoroughly is seen frequently. Or they lose themselves completely and are under
the partner's thumb.
It
can be said that it is just manifestation of dependence, if they would like to
meet their partner every day, or desire to be together always, or want to
monopolize their partner. Even
if the wish is filled temporarily, it never lasts long. Because their partner are different existence
from them, and they are another characters.”
・・・
“When
it is in dependency, the leading role of your life is not yourself. The partner for dependence is the leading role of
your life, and is governing your life. With
independence, we become the leading role of our life.”・・・” Anyway, a dream cannot
be realized while you have been weak lonely. That
everybody take over loneliness and try hard towards realization of a dream
makes possible the better human relations which respect mutual character.“
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○Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.
Don’t be trapped
by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking.
Don’t let the
noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice.
And
most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. －Steve Jobs（1955-2011）
○The friendship between the wise men is light like water. ―Chuang-tzu （B.C.552-B.C.472）
６２－２ Unleash Your Brain Power３
・The second way to train positive neural for
unlock your originally brain power without having to atrophy is not rely on
others.
・The reliance on others is withering the
emotions insidiously.
・Even if you go to temples
and shrines or a church, and wish only your happiness and fortunes, the Buddha
and God will only get bored.
・For unleash of your brain power , it is
good to think about not your thing but the surrounding person, and to ask the
happiness for the person of the world, if you can do.
・But you don't need to do
all of your work, everyday life, etc. by yourself.
・If you do not assign but
continue only miscellaneous business, your feeling will shrink.
・You should be advanced
work, housekeeping, etc. valuing teamwork and communication and borrowing a
surrounding person's power.
・After all, in order to
set your brain's ability free, the posture in which it does not depend on other
things is required.
・If you do not depend on
other things and have a margin to sympathize with the others, your brain power
will be enleashed.
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